Timberline: Homesick Dutch Ovener
(Timberline
part 6)
We had 110 boys come to Timberline
the second year we were at Bristlecone. I had a few boys from my own troop and
those of the troops of our sister wards.
With 110 boys it was very apparent that we would not get to know each boy as
well as we would have liked as scoutmasters of the troop. We had one
young man who was very homesick and each of us took turns trying to help him
stay the entire week. It got to the point that we all at least knew one boy
very well. Anyway one night Doug and I decided to try something that had worked
in previous years and might in this case. We had a prescription drug bottle in
our First Aid kit that had a title about being a pill for homesickness. It was
a capsule filled with powder sugar and was merely a placebo pill. So that
afternoon when he got his usual case of sickness we called him into our tent
and gave him a priesthood blessing and then told him we had a pill that might
help him. He immediately responded with “my mother is a nurse and doesn’t let
me take any drugs that she hasn’t given to me.” We were set back a little but
then I told him that I knew his mother quite well (which I did and he knew it
as well since we had been in the same ward with them a few years earlier) and
that I am sure she would be OK with us giving him the pill. He seemed ok with
that after we had a little more discussion about it and after we decided to let
him talk to his mother for permission (of course I talked to her first in
another location so that she was aware of our intentions, she laughed and said
it was quite OK) and then he took the pill that evening before he went to bed.
Well the next day at the usual time he came to us and said that the pill had
really worked well and could he have another one. We let him have one. However
later that night as we were getting ready to do a dutch oven treat for the entire
camp (we cooked 7 cobbler cakes in the ovens) he started to have a little
problem again so we just decided to have him help us make the cobbler cakes. We
told him how we needed the help and what to do and stood back as he began to
help. This turned out to be the best medicine we had and was the final turning
point to his daily homesickness. Several years later and after his mother had
died due to cancer, we were moved back into the ward boundaries of his family
and I was assigned to be his father’s home teacher. Ryan by that time had moved
away and happened to be home while Loren and I were there one day doing our
home teaching visit. I mentioned to him the experience and we talked briefly
about how much he had loved his mother. It was pretty special to know how deep
of a relationship they had held and the reasons for why he had been so homesick
at camp, it was due to the fact that he knew his mother was not well at that
time even though I was not aware of it at all.
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