To my Granddaughter
“McKinsey” Dec 2,
2012
A Christmas Tale
Dear McKinsey;
I have been
thinking about your letter and trying to remember what it was like when I was
7, wow, WOW, WOW, that was a long time ago. I am having a hard time remembering that far
back, however I was hoping it would be OK to put a few things from my childhood
that would include from my earliest recollections to when I left for college at
age 18 down instead. You might find them a little of interest as well.
You asked for
several things specifically so I will put these into the areas you requested as
much as possible.
1.
How
are you? Well I am doing great. I am loving life and working hard and trying to
be good. (That was included so that if Santa happens to ask you about me you
can let him know I am trying to be on his “nice” list not the other one.
2.
How
did I spend the holidays when I was your age. Well I am going to write it as a
general progressive age as I explained earlier.
A.
When
I was young like you I had a great time during the holidays going up on the
hill behind our home in Duchesne and tunneling into the snow that would blow
off the bench and over the cedar trees that grew on the hill. It was fun
because we could go into the snow drift and then find an area under the trees where
there was no snow and it would be like a little bear den inside where it would
be surprisingly warm and cozy. I remember burying a treasure chest one time but
for some reason cannot ever remember when I dug it back up if I did.
B.
Since
I lived on a farm we had things that most other children did not have access to
and in the same way we didn’t have other things. What I am specifically
referring to here though is snow sleighs or discs like the plastic ones now. My
father however made up for the difference by taking an old disk from one of the
worn out pieces of farm equipment and welding two metal pieces onto each side
for handles. We then dragged that old metal disc to the top of the bench and
would ride down through the trees on the snow. It wasn’t a real easy task
however at first since it probably weighed at least what we did and maybe more.
We had to take turns dragging it to the top of the hill. Then since it was so
heavy it rarely would go down the hill until we had dragged it to the bottom
several times thus packing the snow to where it was solid enough that the disc
wouldn’t just sink into it and stop. It was a lot of fun though after we got
the trails made and we would ride it two or three times down the hill before we
were way too tired to continue. That wasn’t all bad though because then the
trail was already made for the next day, unless it snowed again.
C.
Until
I was 8 I had to do the dishes with my sisters and so part of the day was also
spent doing household chores like the dishes.
D.
We
also had a little pond on the lower part of our property that was about a half
mile from the house. We would go there in the break from school for Christmas
and ice skate on that little pond. Except for one year when it didn’t freeze
and when we all went down there (my brothers and sisters and I ) we were
disappointed to find it dry with no water and no ice. I remember that day well
because I thought that since I couldn’t see water in it then I could just walk
across it and as my family watched (while laughing as well probably) I walked
about 5 feet into it and then sank to my knees in mud. I was a surprised, mad,
little boy.
E.
After
I was eight and had a fight with my sister, Leesa, when we were doing dishes. I
became old enough to do the real chores, milking and feeding the cows and
feeding the other livestock that we had after that day. So then my time all
year as well as the break was to go out at 6 am and milk the cows and feed the
livestock and then repeat that chore around 5 again that night. (I soon regretted
having gotten old enough to do chores like my brothers.)
That pretty well takes care of that
section. If I think of more then I will come back to it. Oh and if you want to
know more about the fight with Leesa I think it is on my blog somewhere. Look for
something about a sugar bowl lid and me pretending I was hurt when she threw it
at me and hit me in the head with it. It was the last time I ever did dishes
when the girls were there.
3.
What
kind of presents did you get?
A.
One that
I remember from, probably about the time I was two or three, was made by my
grandmother Poulson (Nana, as we called her.) We had an old couch and one year
mom and dad bought a new one and so Nana took the fabric off of the couch and
made us each a stuffed animal (your dad might remember having seen it since I
still have it somewhere I think). It was suppose to be a bear and so it was a
two dimensional piece meaning that it was flat and had three legs. One at the
back, one in the center, and one for the front leg and they were all on the
same level. It was grandma’s best effort to make it flat so they could be like
pillows yet get some stuffing into them. I loved that old bear as you could
probably guess since I still have it somewhere unless your grandma finally
succeeded in throwing it away.
B.
I
remember getting a small thought book in our stocking every year. They were
full of small stories or thoughts since we would have to give talks in church
they were given to us so that we would have things to help us write our talks.
We had Sunday School for the children on Sundays (like primary now) and Primary
during the week so we had lots of opportunity to give 2 and a half minute
talks. (See above)
C.
I
remember getting a brand new large toy dump truck, in fact I think it was in
the shed for several years here as well. Anyway I ended up with it but it was
actually given to my brother and I both as a joint gift for the sand tire (an
old tractor tire filled with sand that we played in.)
D.
I
also remember getting a plastic model car kit each year that we would put
together for a few days following Christmas while still not in school. I forgot
to mention that in the first list. I have some pictures of at least five of
them that I will attach to this email letter. Maybe I will snail mail this and
if I do I will just send the pictures in an email since I don’t have printed
copies of them.) (see below)
E.
I
received an Brownie Starlite Camera
outfit one year. My first real camera and you know where that got me. (see below)
F.
I
also received a pencil holder that I helped dad make for the rest of the family
as well. We made one for each person. We worked out in the barn for several
days cutting small blocks of wood from a cedar branch then peeling off the bark
and drilling the holes and then varnishing them. I had a lot of fun with dad and
my brother Lynn as we made those gifts. (see below)
G.
We
always had a few pieces of hard tack candy, nuts of all kinds and an orange in
our stockings. Once in a while there would be a piece of chocolate candy as
well. Mom use to threaten that she would put coal into our stocking if we
didn’t behave well enough. I think she would tell us that was so she could
remind us of when she was young and her mother actually did give her only coal
one year because she had earned it as she would say by not having been obedient
to her mother. We were lucky enough to never get any. Once in a while there
might be an apple as well depending on how well the apples were in the cellar
that year which we had picked from our own trees in the yard that fall.
H.
That
pretty much sums up what I remember other than the new shirt, pants and socks
that we would each get from the Sears mail order catalog. (Yes, there were
usually under clothes as well.) New clothes made up the bulk of the presents
under the tree each year.
4.
What
kinds of games did you play or songs did you sing?
A.
We
usually had one or more puzzles that we would work on that were set up in the
family room during those days at home. We seldom watched TV since all we had
was an old black and white one that didn’t get very good reception.
B.
We had
games like “Monopoly”. In fact I think that was the only game we had until
several years into my teenage days when we received “Clue” as a family Christmas gift. We did have
a few card games like “Old Maid “ and “Fish” that we would play as well but
mother would never allow face cards in our home so I knew nothing about those
kinds of games, (Kings in the corner, Solitaire, Etc.) “Phase 10” and the other
ones like that had yet to be invented.
C.
Songs
were usually Christmas ones at that time of the year and hymns the rest of the
year. We always sang “Silent Night” and the other traditional hymns that are
written about Christ and Christmas. My family loved to sing around the piano on
just about every Sunday evening in the year and usually it was just so we could
get Dad to sing “He’s my brother’ or “No Man is an Island”, and then there was
one about the great deep where he would sing a deep base line for us. I cannot
remember the name of that one at the moment. (It might be “The Mighty Deep.) My
sister Alma taught me to sing the Alto part to “Love at Home” when we were
asked to sing in church for Sacrament meeting one Sunday and then later several
other songs as well. We were able with 7 children and my parents to do pretty
good 4 part harmony.
My dad had a very beautiful
base voice and often would sing at funerals throughout the county of Duchesne
with three other men as a quartet. So singing songs was a very important part
of our family.
5.
Did
you have any special family traditions?
A.
I
guess I just answered part that question when I wrote about the songs.
B.
We
also had traditions of baking cookies and bread to pass around to friends and
neighbors in town. We would make quite a lot of cookies but it was never
enough. It was fun though. Once in a while we would also make some candy and my
favorite one to make was “Animal Candy” a hard tack candy with a name that
never made sense to me.
C.
We
would also go caroling on wagons loaded with hay and pulled by a tractor. It
was fun but usually very cold so we enjoyed hot chocolate after we got home.
D.
We
also had a tradition for a few years of my life while Nana was still living.
She would come up from town (dad would always go get her) and watch us open our
Christmas presents. One year however she was in bed for several months in mom
and dad’s bedroom. She had suffered a stroke and we were taking care of her. We
would always come home from school, get off the bus and run in to see grandma
laying in bed. It was hard for me as a ten year old to see her that way but she
was so very special to us. That was 1963 and I remembered President Kennedy was
assassinated that year. Well just before Christmas Grandma had taken a turn for
the worst and she passed away the on Dec 26th. Mom always felt like
she had held on long enough to get past Christmas so she wouldn’t spoil it for
us.
E.
One
other tradition of sorts that wouldn’t or shouldn’t be classified that way was
the annual forgetting of Santa to bring out one or more presents. Actually I
don’t really remember if it happened more than the one time but it did happen
that year that he left it under mom and dad’s bed and it was forgotten by mom
and dad. It was a tether ball and pole with stand that dad had obviously helped
Santa make for the present of the ball so we would have a place to play with it
when we got it. Mom forgot it until nearly half way through the day.
F.
Of
course we always had Family Home Evening on Christmas Eve when we would sing
the songs and read the story from Luke chapter 2 of Christ’s birth. It was
always a part of our Christmas that I didn’t like at first but later became
aware of how special it really was for me. I know that Christ lives and am so
thankful for His gospel and all that His atonement means to me.
G.
Another
tradition that I had for only a few years was the going to bed and then going
into my sister’s room and looking down through a hole into the front room so we
could see Santa. He never came while we were watching through that hole though
and must have been alerted to it by mom and dad. It was a square hole about 12
inches wide and across. It was a hole that was put there when the home was
built so that the warm air from the wood-burning stove in the family room could
heat the bedrooms. By the time I came along in the family though dad had installed
a coal furnace in the basement so the wood burning one in the family room had
been moved to the shed but the hole was still there. I only had it for a few
years since I helped dig two room under the family room that then became my
bedroom and study room.
H.
Along
with the rooms upstairs though was always the tradition of sitting on the
platform at the head of the stairs while waiting for mom and dad to get up and
say we could come down to open the presents in our stockings. Then we would go
back up and get dressed for the day and at that point go do the chores (or
before I was eight) wait for dad and the older boys to come in from choring as
we called it. We always had to take care of the cows and other animals so that
they wouldn’t suffer while we opened presents. We would also eat breakfast
after chores were done before opening the presents under the tree.
I.
Another
tradition that I just remembered was going to Roosevelt about 30 miles from
Duchesne to buy presents for each other. We were usually each given $5.00 to
buy for 8 other people. I remember the only way that would happen was to go to
the “5 and Dime” store in Roosevelt where little gifts would only cost 50 cents
or so.
J.
I
guess that it wouldn’t be considered a tradition by most people but there was
the annual day spent looking through the sears catalog and telling mom which
shirt and which pair of pants we wanted and then having to try and figure out
the right size to order. Not real fun but we did get to look at all the toys
and at least make our wishes even though we seldom got any of them.
Well
that is about it. I hope you have not been too bored by the length. I am known
to write a lot when given the chance and it can get boring to a 7 year old.
Your dad may have to explain a lot of it to u as well or we can video chat and
I will explain it too.
I
love you very much and tell your teacher thank you for giving you a writing
assignment that would make me take a wander down memory lane. It has been fun. Remember
to look at my blog to see the pictures and I will also put this with it so that
it is recorded in my history as well. It also appears that I was able to
remember that long ago, wow. WOW, WOW that is amazingJ
Love,
Grandpa
Poulson