Sunday, April 28, 2013

BSA and the Church


I post this statement from the church since I am excited that Scouting has made a good decision in their policy and am thankful that we will still be able to hold strong values for our children. I just hope that boys who join will not listen to adults who will try to make them pass poor values to others. The Christian Science group has already said that the Mormon church accepts the policy to allow gay boys to join. They missed the real intent of the policy already and are trying to make a spin on it that is contrary to the church's real stand.


Church Issues Statement on Boy Scouts of America


For 100 years, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has enjoyed a strong, rewarding relationship with BoyScouts of America (BSA).

Recently, BSA has been reviewing a possible policy change in its standards for membership and leadership. Now that BSAhas finished its review process and has proposed a resolution for consideration, the Church has issued the following statement:

“Over the past several weeks BSA has undertaken the difficult task of reviewing its membership standards policy. In their own words, this undertaking has been ‘the most comprehensive listening exercise in its history.’
“While the Church has not launched any campaign either to effect or prevent a policy change, we have followed the discussion and are satisfied that BSA has made a thoughtful, good-faith effort to address issues that, as they have said, remain ‘among the most complex and challenging issues facing the BSA and society today.’

“The current BSA proposal constructively addresses a number of important issues that have been part of the ongoing dialogue, including consistent standards for all BSA partners, recognition that Scouting exists to serve and benefit youth rather than Scout leaders, a single standard of moral purity for youth in the program, and a renewed emphasis for Scouts to honor their duty to God.
“We are grateful to BSA for their careful consideration of these issues. We appreciate the positive things contained in this current proposal that will help build and strengthen the moral character and leadership skills of youth as we work together in the future.

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Monday, April 15, 2013

Easter Fun



























Marie in the Arrowhead Hospital


Marie in the Arrowhead hospital two weeks after my surgery.

Marie and I planned to go to Arizona to visit Hayden’s family during part of her Spring Break since we knew it would probably be the only time we could for several months. We decided to head as far as Las Vegas after I got off work on Friday night. We secured a hotel room in the Howard Johnson Inn Las Vegas Strip. We left home around 5 pm and drove fairly easily to Vegas arriving at about 10:30 pm. We went into the hotel and were given a room 141. We went for a walk, after getting our luggage into the room,  down and around the inside of the hotel. We then went right back up to the room and to bed. We woke up early and since there was no continental breakfast and the restaurant was not open until 10 am we just decided to leave. We got back onto I 515 and left going toward Hoover Dam. We traveled and finally stopped for gas in Kingman, AZ.
We drove further on US 93 and thought that we were on the right road until I noticed that the mountains ahead of us looked a lot like those near Flagstaff. Well they were and we had missed our turnoff 23 miles after Kingman. So we just continued toward Flagstaff and then went on I 70 to Phoenix. Well right about the time we were passing the outskirts of Flagstaff Marie mentioned to me that she had been bitten by something and the bites were itching a little bit. I asked if she wanted to stop and get some Benedryl but she said she could wait until we got to Hayden’s.
We arrived at Hayden’s and he was at another home studying while Cheyenne and the children were at her Aunt’s home for an Easter party.  We decided to eat our lunch so we took it into the backyard and then waited for about an hour until Cheyenne and the children came home. (During that wait Hayden had called and we told him about the bites and he and the other medical students he was studying with suggested that we get some topical cream to put on the bites so we went to a nearby Albertson’s and picked up some Benedryl cream which we applied to the five bites she had received.)We then had an Easter Egg hunt for Hallie and Leilah while Greyson napped. It was a lot of fun watching the girl’s look for the eggs and treats.
Later that night after supper we started to discuss the bites with Hayden since they seemed to be worse and we starting to swell and get red. I was worried because the one on her right arm near her shoulder was getting really red and looked as though it was going up her veins as well.  I gave her a blessing since Hayden had lefty to study again and we retired for the night. Well during the night they started to blister over the bite area and when she was getting up the one on her back popped.
We decided that we would need to get some medical help so just before breakfast was ready I took her to a local Emergency Care and the doctor there, Dr. Jeffers, told her he was going to send her to ER. She immediately said she wouldn’t go so he discussed the possibility of giving her some antibacterial pills to send home with her but finally she decided to go to the ER at Arrowhead hospital just a few miles away.
I took her to the ER and Dr Ronald K Sterrenberg there decided to have a second Doctor come in and look at her as well. They both decided that she would have to be admitted and given the medications directly into her blood stream if they were going to be able to stop the bacteria from spreading through her body. They decided that she had Cellulitus. She was not happy.
We were taken to a room on the third floor (303) and spent the rest of the day there and through the night until Monday afternoon. The Dr Vic also decided to have a second doctor look at her since it really puzzled them why she would have swelling on both arms not just one. They decided that it had to be bacteria from her skin that had gone into the body through the bites or that maybe she was just allergic to the bite venom. He also had an infectious disease specialist come look at her Monday. He saw the progress that she had made during the night and told her several, (many) times that she was going to be fine. It made me think that he was worried about it spreading to vital organs as well as I was and that they had been able to prevent that and he was not concerned about that anymore. SO we were able to leave that afternoon.
I had stayed the night with her in the hospital but the nurse couldn’t find and bed or recliner for me to sleep on so I pulled the three chairs in the room together and put some pillows on them and covered myself with a blanket she had given me. I did not sleep very well at all but did get some sleep before morning.
The bites had formed into blisters by Sunday morning but they would only release the liquid from one on her right arm. The others they told us not to touch. We wish we had now since the one where they removed the liquid has all but disappeared while the others are all large scabs that look like they will leave significant scars. Well for our four day visit with the children we ended up having them visit us in the hospital instead for the first two full days.
It was not really a lot of fun even though Hayden had brought the Hunger Games book over so I read it to her while she lay in the bed. That ended up being a little bit fun.
Well for the rest of the story about the oddities of this trip. We left Wednesday morning in plentu of time to get home by 8 pm but at Kingman I didn’t look at the map again and we ended up driving all of the way to Barstow CA before I figured out we were way off track. It didn’t help that we were listening to a book on tape so the time went very quickly. I kept thinking we were not on the right road but just figured I was off in my calculations. Next time, if there is a next time for that route which is supposed to be shorter, I will pay a lot more attention to the roads I travel. So we didn’t get home until 11:30 pm and I was back up at 3:45 am to go to work. It was a long day.










 
Note: Tuesday April 16, 2913 I called the Inn and the lady there assured me they had no bedbugs because they have Terminex come in every month and spray for them. There was no way, she said, that they could have bitten her there.  I am not so convinced myself. Any people coming in between the last application by Terminex could have brought them with them anyway and they could have still been there.